lima: make lima_submit one time use drop data (v3)

lima: make lima_submit one time use drop data (v3)

lima_submit is created by lima_submit_get() in draw/clear functions
and freed after submit to kernel.

There is a hash map to find the same lima_submit for color/depth
buffer combination if user switch framebuffer w/o flush the command
then switch back again.

v2:
rename lima_flush_submit to lima_flush_submit_accessing_bo.

v3:
delay flush access submit to lima_update_submit_wb when really know
if this submit will write to the target buffer.

Reviewed-by: Vasily Khoruzhick <anarsoul@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Qiang Yu <yuq825@gmail.com>
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/mesa/mesa/merge_requests/3755>