drm/vkms: Switch to shmem helpers

drm/vkms: Switch to shmem helpers

Inspired by a patch by Chris Wilson for vgem. Plus this gives us vmap
at the gem bo level, which we need for generic fbdev emulation.

Luckily shmem also tracks ->vaddr, so we just need to adjust the code
all over a bit to make this fit.

Also wire up handle_to_fd, dunno why that was missing.

v2:
- Drop now unused container_of #define (Melissa)
- Make sure we keep creating cached objects, this is for testing
  (Thomas)

Signed-off-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@intel.com>
Cc: Chris Wilson <chris@chris-wilson.co.uk>
Cc: Maarten Lankhorst <maarten.lankhorst@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Maxime Ripard <mripard@kernel.org>
Cc: Thomas Zimmermann <tzimmermann@suse.de>
Cc: David Airlie <airlied@linux.ie>
Cc: Daniel Vetter <daniel@ffwll.ch>
Cc: Rodrigo Siqueira <rodrigosiqueiramelo@gmail.com>
Cc: Melissa Wen <melissa.srw@gmail.com>
Cc: Haneen Mohammed <hamohammed.sa@gmail.com>
Acked-by: Thomas Zimmermann <tzimmermann@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Melissa Wen <melissa.srw@gmail.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20201013111027.375999-1-daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch