Verify def before infer fensor (#18129)

Verify def before infer fensor (#18129)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/18129

A lot of tensor interference function assume the operator passes the schema.
So call Verity to make sure this is actually the case.

Created diff before to add checking in Concat (https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/17110), but I encountered lot more places where this is assumed (for example ElementwiseOpShapeInference)

Reviewed By: mdschatz

Differential Revision: D14503933

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