[Static Runtime] Use F14FastMap/F14FastSet (#63999)

[Static Runtime] Use F14FastMap/F14FastSet (#63999)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/63999

Use folly::F14FastMap/F14FastSet instead of std::unordered_map/unordered_set in the Static Runtime code base. folly::F14FastMap/F14FastSet implements the same APIs as std::unordered_map/unordered_set but faster. For details see https://github.com/facebook/folly/blob/master/folly/container/F14.md

Reviewed By: d1jang

Differential Revision: D30566149

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