build: Fail on unsupported argument

build: Fail on unsupported argument

Also use same sys.exit everywhere

1.3-rel should fail un tizen_unsecured
because that component is not yet merged

Bug: https://jira.iotivity.org/browse/IOT-1745
Change-Id: I98e14eff713a6434d0521bc2235d127826a45acf
Signed-off-by: Philippe Coval <philippe.coval@osg.samsung.com>
Reviewed-on: https://gerrit.iotivity.org/gerrit/20781
Reviewed-by: C.J. Collier <cjcollier@linuxfoundation.org>
Tested-by: jenkins-iotivity <jenkins@iotivity.org>
(cherry picked from commit ae20072dc07ad11d770bbeccdcbefee685aeb504)
Reviewed-on: https://gerrit.iotivity.org/gerrit/21007
Reviewed-by: Rick Bell <richard.s.bell@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: George Nash <george.nash@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Kevin Kane <kkane@microsoft.com>
Reviewed-by: Dan Mihai <Daniel.Mihai@microsoft.com>