bpf, sockmap: Build helper to create connected socket pair

bpf, sockmap: Build helper to create connected socket pair

A common operation for testing is to spin up a pair of sockets that are
connected. Then we can use these to run specific tests that need to
send data, check BPF programs and so on.

The sockmap_listen programs already have this logic lets move it into
the new sockmap_helpers header file for general use.

Signed-off-by: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Reviewed-by: Jakub Sitnicki <jakub@cloudflare.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20230523025618.113937-11-john.fastabend@gmail.com