Support a few "shifted register" operations on Arm64 (#75823)

Support a few "shifted register" operations on Arm64 (#75823)

* Refactor Lowering::IsContainableBinaryOp so node checks are simpler

* Update Lowering::ContainCheckBinary to check both operands for a commutative oper

* Updating Lowering::IsContainableBinaryOp to support some shifted register instructions

* Resolving some build failures/asserts

* Ensure IsContainableBinaryOp checks IsSafeToContainMem

* Use parentNode not node

* Ensure shifted register instructions that set flags use the right instruction

* Ensure the shift amount is checked for smaller nodes

* Apply suggestions from code review

* Apply suggestions from code review

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