Change weston_surface.resource to a wl_resource pointer.

Change weston_surface.resource to a wl_resource pointer.

This is the first in what will be a series of weston patches to convert
instances of wl_resource to pointers so we can make wl_resource opaque.
This patch handles weston_surface and should be the most invasive of the
entire series.  I am sending this one out ahead of the rest for review.

Specifically, my machine is not set up to build XWayland so I have no
ability to test it fully.  Could someone please test with XWayland and let
me know if this causes problems?

Because a surface may be created from XWayland, the resource may not always
exist.  Therefore, a destroy signal was added to weston_surface and
everything used to listen to surface->resource.destroy_signal now listens
to surface->destroy_signal.