scsi: lpfc: Fix crash when nvmet transport calls host_release

scsi: lpfc: Fix crash when nvmet transport calls host_release

When lpfc is running in NVMET mode and supports the NVME-1 addendum
changes, a LIP on a bound NVME Initiator or lipping the lpfc NVMET's link
resulted in an Oops in lpfc_nvmet_host_release.

The fix requires lpfc NVMET to maintain an additional reference on any node
structure that acts as the hosthandle for the NVMET transport.  This
reference get is a one-time addition, is taken prior to the upcall of an
unsolicited LS_REQ, and is released when the NVMET transport releases the
hosthandle during the host_release downcall.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20210104180240.46824-13-jsmart2021@gmail.com
Co-developed-by: Dick Kennedy <dick.kennedy@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: Dick Kennedy <dick.kennedy@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: James Smart <jsmart2021@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>