[release/8.0-rc1] [wasm] Do not build mono libs with `-msimd128` (#90750)

[release/8.0-rc1] [wasm] Do not build mono libs with `-msimd128` (#90750)

* [wasm] Do not build mono libs with `-msimd128`

Make it optional, build only minimal set of code witch required
`-msimd128` to separate library. Also provide "stub" nosimd
version of this library.

Choose the appropriate library during linking.

* Fix build

* Fix build of non-wasm platforms

* Add simd options for wasi

* Fix wasi build

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Co-authored-by: Radek Doulik <radek.doulik@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Larry Ewing <lewing@microsoft.com>