test: convert test/ to use meson install

test: convert test/ to use meson install

Automatic rebuilding is removed: it doesn't play well with ninja, because
ninja always writes logs, and even if nothing needs to be built, it will
make the log file owned by root. So let's just remove this, and say that
the user must always do the build first.

I'm also keeping make for the tests, because ninja doesn't play well with
sudo.

Since the build directory is arbitrary, it needs to be specified, e.g.
  sudo make BUILD_DIR=/home/zbyszek/src/systemd/build1 -C test/TEST-01-BASIC/