cxl/region: Validate region mode vs decoder mode

cxl/region: Validate region mode vs decoder mode

In preparation for a new region mode, do not, for example, allow
'ram' decoders to be assigned to 'pmem' regions and vice versa.

Reviewed-by: Vishal Verma <vishal.l.verma@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Gregory Price <gregory.price@memverge.com>
Reviewed-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <Jonathan.Cameron@huawei.com>
Tested-by: Fan Ni <fan.ni@samsung.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/167601995111.1924368.7459128614177994602.stgit@dwillia2-xfh.jf.intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>