[mlir][ods] Generate inferReturnTypes for ops with TypesMatchWith

[mlir][ods] Generate inferReturnTypes for ops with TypesMatchWith

Ops that use TypesMatchWith to constrain result types for verification
and to infer result types during parser generation should also be able
to have the `inferReturnTypes` method auto generated. This patch
upgrades the logic for generating `inferReturnTypes` to handle the
TypesMatchWith trait by building a type inference graph where each edge
corresponds to "type of A can be inferred from type of B", supporting
transformers other than `"$_self"`.

Reviewed By: lattner, rriddle

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D141231