update normalizeMemRef utility; handle missing failure check + add more tests

update normalizeMemRef utility; handle missing failure check + add more tests

- take care of symbolic operands with alloc
- add missing check for compose map failure and a test case
- add test cases on strides
- drop incorrect check for one-to-one'ness

Signed-off-by: Uday Bondhugula <uday@polymagelabs.com>
Closes tensorflow/mlir#132

COPYBARA_INTEGRATE_REVIEW=https://github.com/tensorflow/mlir/pull/132 from bondhugula:normalize-memrefs 8aebf285fb0d7c19269d85255aed644657e327b7
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