iavf: Fix race between iavf_close and iavf_reset_task

iavf: Fix race between iavf_close and iavf_reset_task

During stress tests with adding VF to namespace and changing vf's
trust there was a race between iavf_reset_task and iavf_close.
Sometimes when IAVF_FLAG_AQ_DISABLE_QUEUES from iavf_close was sent
to PF after reset and before IAVF_AQ_GET_CONFIG was sent then PF
returns error IAVF_NOT_SUPPORTED to disable queues request and
following requests. There is need to get_config before other
aq_required will be send but iavf_close clears all flags, if
get_config was not sent before iavf_close, then it will not be send
at all.

In case when IAVF_FLAG_AQ_GET_OFFLOAD_VLAN_V2_CAPS was sent before
IAVF_FLAG_AQ_DISABLE_QUEUES then there was rtnl_lock deadlock
between iavf_close and iavf_adminq_task until iavf_close timeouts
and disable queues was sent after iavf_close ends.

There was also a problem with sending delete/add filters.
Sometimes when filters was not yet added to PF and in
iavf_close all filters was set to remove there might be a try
to remove nonexistent filters on PF.

Add aq_required_tmp to save aq_required flags and send them after
disable_queues will be handled. Clear flags given to iavf_down
different than IAVF_FLAG_AQ_GET_CONFIG as this flag is necessary
to sent other aq_required. Remove some flags that we don't
want to send as we are in iavf_close and we want to disable
interface. Remove filters which was not yet sent and send del
filters flags only when there are filters to remove.

Signed-off-by: Michal Jaron <michalx.jaron@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mateusz Palczewski <mateusz.palczewski@intel.com>
Tested-by: Konrad Jankowski <konrad0.jankowski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>