completely new C++ persistence implementation (#13011)

completely new C++ persistence implementation (#13011)

* integrated the new C++ persistence; removed old persistence; most of OpenCV compiles fine! the tests have not been run yet

* fixed multiple bugs in the new C++ persistence

* fixed raw size of the parsed empty sequences

* [temporarily] excluded obsolete applications traincascade and createsamples from build

* fixed several compiler warnings and multiple test failures

* undo changes in cocoa window rendering (that was fixed in another PR)

* fixed more compile warnings and the remaining test failures (hopefully)

* trying to fix the last little warning