[ELF] Rename fetch to extract

[ELF] Rename fetch to extract

The canonical term is "extract" (GNU ld documentation, Solaris's `-z *extract`
options). Avoid inventing a term and match --why-extract. (ld64 prefers "load"
but the word is overloaded too much)

Mostly MFC, except for --help messages and the header row in
--print-archive-stats output.