vhost: take worker or vq instead of dev for queueing

vhost: take worker or vq instead of dev for queueing

This patch has the core work queueing function take a worker for when we
support multiple workers. It also adds a helper that takes a vq during
queueing so modules can control which vq/worker to queue work on.

This temp leaves vhost_work_queue. It will be removed when the drivers
are converted in the next patches.

Signed-off-by: Mike Christie <michael.christie@oracle.com>
Message-Id: <20230626232307.97930-6-michael.christie@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>