[RyuJit] fix the inconsistency between setContained and isContained. (#13991)

[RyuJit] fix the inconsistency between setContained and isContained. (#13991)

* show the problem with contained arg_place

We set contained on PUTARG_REG, but it doesn't pass IsContained check.

* Fix problem with gtControlExpr

* fix problem with ARGPLACE

* additional improvements1

We should never have a contained node that is the last node in the
execution order.

* additional impovement2 for xarch.

It is redundant, do not need to set as contained.

* additional improvement2 for arm

`GenTree* ctrlExpr = call->gtControlExpr;` was unused.

* additional improvement3: unify CheckLir.