rtpbin: fix leak of elements requested by signals

rtpbin: fix leak of elements requested by signals

When the signal returns a floating reference, as its return type
is transfer full, we need to sink it ourselves before passing
it to gst_bin_add (which is transfer floating).

This allows us to unref it in bin_remove_element later on, and
thus to also release the reference we now own if the signal
returns a non-floating reference as well.

As we now still hold a reference to the element when removing it,
we also need to lock its state and setting it to NULL before
unreffing it

Also update the request_aux_sender test.

https://bugzilla.gnome.org/show_bug.cgi?id=792543