internals: Decouple logging an error from exiting unsuccessfully

internals: Decouple logging an error from exiting unsuccessfully

This lets _dbus_warn() and _dbus_warn_check_failed() fall through
to flushing stderr and calling _dbus_abort(), meaning that failed
checks and warnings can result in a core dump as intended.
By renaming the FATAL severity to ERROR, we ensure that any code
contributions that assumed the old semantics will fail to compile.

Signed-off-by: Simon McVittie <smcv@collabora.com>
Reviewed-by: Philip Withnall <withnall@endlessm.com>
Bug: https://bugs.freedesktop.org/show_bug.cgi?id=101568